I have anxiety. I guess having a lot on my plate with the kids was bound to affect my own mental health in a few ways. I usually find I can keep it under control but some days it gets the better of me. Yesterday the whole family went into the city to look through… Continue reading Anxiety & I.
Jeff and I have been together since we were nineteen. We've had our hicups over the past 13 years but we always end up better than before. We don't have that Earth shattering, soul on fire kind of thing going on. What we do have is a deep appreciation for each other and I can… Continue reading Jeff.
A bad day out.
In the term 3 school holidays last year we had a very bad day out. I can look back on this day now and laugh but at the time it was a shocker. The Pokèmon game was popular at this time and Kallan had been begging to go to kings park and hunt for some.… Continue reading A bad day out.
Living with the lower end.
Patrick has severe autism. Also known as classic autism or Kanners syndrome. At six years old he is completely non-verbal. He has never said a word. He makes a lot of sounds and is very noisy but his sounds are mostly him stimming. He has just started using noise to communicate, in the form of… Continue reading Living with the lower end.
When I hopped on a Royal Flying Doctors plane at 1am on Sunday 11th of June I had no idea that I would not return home until the 2nd of November. Patrick would spend the next 141 days in Hospital after being born at 29weeks gestation, 11 weeks early. I myself spent three days after… Continue reading 29 weeks.
My third pregnancy had been a tough one. I had suffered extreme nausea through out the first trimester. Then during my second trimester my pelvis separated, leaving me in so much pain I ended up in hospital. I began to get headaches all the time, my hands and feet were going numb, which was also a… Continue reading 28 weeks.
Campbell my middle child, is as stubborn as, well, me! If his mind is made up about something it is made up. Althought hard to toilet train, Kallan was sorted before he went to kindy. Campbell on the other hand had huge anxiety around anything to do with the toilet. We literally couldn't walk past… Continue reading Toilet terror.
Thrills, spills and ADHD pills.
In 2012 we decided to take the boys on a family holday to the Gold Coast, Queensland. It was here that we started to notice Kallan was behaving very differently to his usual self. He was usually a very quiet and sweet boy but he had become impulsive and extremely silly. We visited all of… Continue reading Thrills, spills and ADHD pills.
Four is the loneliest number.
Four years is old is the general age where your child will start kindergarten. This is a huge milestone, it's the start of their education and the place they begin to form friendships. For me four was one of the hardest and loneliest ages. My kids were included and treated well by all of their… Continue reading Four is the loneliest number.
Last November we had what I call our 2 weeks from hell. It first started out on the weekend with Patrick having temperatures and being rather lethargic. For who a boy who is normally full of energy this was a bit of an issue. Giving medicine to Patrick is like trying to bathe a cat.… Continue reading November Pain.